Whether we realise it or not, our choice in language can provide help, comfort, and validation for non-binary individuals in a widely binary world.Īimed primarily at readers who are new to the concept, Archie and Tristan’s easy, humorous dialogue and quirky, distinct illustrations help create a book that encourages readers to implement the basics, practice using language that avoids alienating others, and highlights simple ways we can avoid misgendering people – and what you can do if you make a mistake!Ī good introduction for newbies (and a great book to share with friends, family and colleagues), the book also touches on ways non-binary people can come out to friends, ways in which they have handled loved ones who refuse to use their preferred pronouns, and the importance of having a support network ready for when times may feel tough.
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The first in a new series from Limerence Press looking at gender and sexuality, A Quick & Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns covers not just how to use more inclusive language, but why it’s so important. “You look like a Bob, so I’m going to ignore your personal experience to fit into my own worldview… This is how I feel every time I’m purposely misgendered,” Archie says. Archie uses a great example to help explain it to those who might struggle. One important area the authors highlight is society’s tendency to assume someone’s gender based on hairstyle, clothing choices, or even their name. Along with including some handy cheat sheets to help readers get started, there is also a short list of places readers can find further information beyond this gentle introduction. Focusing primarily on they/them, the authors briefly touch on other pronouns such as ze/hir. Unapologetic in its subject matter, the authors explain how we can use more sensitive, inclusive language in our day-to-day lives. Telling someone their pronouns don’t matter is basically telling them they don’t matter.”
“Even if you don’t get it, you should learn how to use pronouns people request because you love them, like them, or want to work with them. It can make people feel alone, invisible, afraid, exhausted, frustrated, or angry. It’s your responsibility as a decent human being to learn and use whatever pronouns they ask you to.”īeing misgendered, they explain, can be mentally exhausting. If, on the other hand, you are wondering why someone would choose to use gender neutral pronouns, Archie has a great explanation ready: “There are a huge list of reasons, but the truth is… it doesn’t matter! You aren’t owed an explanation. If you’ve never felt quite sure how to explain gender neutral language and its importance, this is the book for you. This combination of perspectives provides a greater insight for readers from different backgrounds, highlighting another side that they may not have previously considered.ĭelivering exactly what it says on the tin, A Quick and Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns is an introduction to gender-neutral pronouns for the uninitiated. They explain that they want to address the topic for everyone – both those that have lived it, and those who are new to the concept. A Quick and Easy Guide to They/Them PronounsĬo-author Tristan had similar worries when approached by longtime friend and non-binary individual, Archie.
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